Things have changed a lot. Nowadays we have men who tell girls, “I need space”.
What happened to giving a girl signs so that she makes the call to end the relationship? I tend to wonder all these things that were drilled to our fathers have been thrown down the drain. Leaving girls vulnerable and hurt as this definitely knocks their confidence and self-esteem.No-matter how much we might believe in gender equality something’s never change, respect of another’s feelings is still essential and important in society and in relationships. People take such things as feelings for granted, no body anticipates the worst but one should tread carefully when it comes to matters of the heart.
For instance in Generations we meet a character called Senzo telling Noluntu that he will never love her the way she deserves and that he will always love Jason but he forgot about all that when he slept with her and led her own. Making her believe that they is hope of her and Senzo being a serious item. Due to that Noluntu is still angry and bitter and does everything in her power to hurt and punish Senzo. As they say, “hell heath no fury like a woman scorned”
Even if it means using her son as a pony in her devious games, It all goes to show how women accept being embarrassed and ditched by men.
On a conclusive note I can safely say when it comes to ending relationships men should be gentleman as women are usually crushed when they are stripped off their pride by men…
Says loads doesn't it, nice article
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